Human Instinct

I used to think that there were two types of men/guys: the good and the bad. Hence, I comforted myself to not to worry, I would pick a good one! Or I used to say to not stereotype all guys as bad, because there were some good ones.

I've learnt a new theory and changed my perspective.

Perhaps, there's never two groups of men. They're never subcategorized as the good or the bad. They are all the same. Even the best good guys you rate has a fuckhead element in them..it's just the matter of revealing it when they have to. It's just their nature. Not being a stereotypist or a feminist here, I am just stating facts that most guys prefer to deny and most ladies prefer to ignore. To admit facts isn't exactly what everyone would like to do, because once you've admitted, you're living in the facts and for this one, it's not exactly a decent reality to be living in.

It's just like how every woman has maternal instinct; every men probably has....well..dickhead instinct. So I'm thinking perhaps it's not entirely their fault, though I despise that side of men; perhaps it's just time for us to accept it as a reality so when things happen, instead of hoping that they will change to make our life better, we ourselves should be the ones who should make change for the better of our day tomorrow. Because at the end of the day - yes, people can influence you; yes, people can comfort you; yes, people can turn your life around but who is the one who will make the biggest difference - it is ourselves. If we want happiness, we seek out for it, we gather ourselves together, chuck away reliance and depend on ourselves. Because truth is, end of the day, everyone is self-centred so if you don't fight for yourself and take care of your own well-being, no one will.